Ultimate Guide to Choosing a Dildo

Choosing the perfect dildo is a personal journey that can enhance your pleasure, boost confidence, and ensure a safe, satisfying experience. With countless options—sizes, shapes, features, and designs—finding the right silicone dildo can feel overwhelming. This ultimate guide simplifies the process, offering expert advice on selecting a body-safe dildo tailored to your needs, whether you’re a beginner or an experienced user. At Fantasy Dildos Australia, we specialise in premium, medical-grade silicone dildos designed for comfort, safety, and durability. Discover how to choose the ideal dildo for you with this comprehensive guide, crafted for Australians seeking quality and discretion.

Why Choosing the Right Dildo Matters

A well-chosen dildo ensures:

Comfort: Matches your experience level and body for ease of use.
Safety: Uses non-porous, medical-grade silicone to prevent health risks.
Pleasure: Delivers the sensations you crave, from gentle to intense.
Longevity: High-quality silicone lasts years with proper care.

The wrong dildo can cause discomfort, safety concerns, or disappointment. For care tips, explore our Dildo Maintenance Guide.

Who Can Use a Dildo?

Dildos are versatile and inclusive, suitable for:

All Genders: Men, women, non-binary individuals, and anyone exploring pleasure.
Experience Levels: Beginners seeking small, soft dildos to advanced users wanting larger, textured designs.
Solo or Partner Play: Perfect for personal exploration or enhancing intimacy with a partner.
Diverse Uses: Vaginal, anal, or external stimulation, depending on design.

Whether you’re in Sydney, Melbourne, or beyond, our silicone dildo collection caters to every preference.

Key Factors to Consider When Choosing a Dildo

1. Material: Why Silicone Is the Gold Standard

Why Silicone? All dildos at FantasyDildos.com.au are made from medical-grade silicone, offering:

Body-Safe: Non-porous, hypoallergenic, and free of phthalates or toxins.

Durable: Resists wear with proper cleaning and storage.

Easy to Clean: Can be washed, boiled, or sterilised. See our How to Clean a Silicone Dildo Safely.

Why Avoid Other Materials? Porous materials (e.g., TPE, jelly) can harbour bacteria and degrade over time, posing health risks.

Recommended Collection: Browse our premium silicone dildos.

2. Size: Finding the Perfect Fit

Options:

Beginner (Small): 10–13 cm long, 2–2.5 cm diameter, ideal for first-timers.
Intermediate (Medium): 13–15 cm long, 2.5–3.8 cm diameter, for moderate experience.
Advanced (Large): 18+ cm long, 3.8+ cm diameter, for experienced users.

Considerations:

Start small if you’re new or prefer gentle sensations.
Consider insertable length vs. total length in product descriptions.
For anal play, prioritise smaller sizes with a flared base.

Tip: Use our size guide to compare options.

Recommended Products:

Beginner Silicone Dildo – Perfect for first-time users.
Large Fantasy Dildo – Ideal for advanced users.

3. Shape and Design: Matching Your Desires

Types:

Realistic: Mimics natural anatomy with veins and defined heads.
Fantasy: Unique designs (e.g., dragon, unicorn) for adventurous play.
Curved: Targets G-spot or prostate stimulation.
Textured: Features ridges or bumps for enhanced sensation.

Considerations:

Choose realistic for a lifelike feel or fantasy for creative exploration.
Curved shapes are ideal for targeted stimulation.

Recommended Product: Our Bloodstone Chimera Monster Dildo offers a textured, fantasy experience. Explore more in our dragon dildo collection.

4. Features: Enhancing Your Experience

Options:

Suction Cup: Sticks to surfaces for hands-free play.
Vibrating: Adds stimulation (check waterproofing for cleaning).
Harness-Compatible: Works with strap-ons for couples.
Dual-Density: Soft outer layer with a firm core for realism.

Considerations:

Suction cups suit solo play in the shower or on furniture.
Vibrating dildos require battery care; see our maintenance guide.

Recommended Products:

Cosmic Anubis Dog Knot Dildo – Versatile for solo play.
Whimsical Spiral Double Ended Dildo – Perfect for couples or those looking for double ended dildo play

5. Firmness: Soft vs. Firm Silicone

Options:

Soft Silicone: Flexible and cushioned, great for beginners or gentle play.
Firm Silicone: Rigid for targeted stimulation or advanced users.

Considerations:

Soft is ideal for comfort and ease of insertion.
Firm suits G-spot or prostate play.

Tip: Check firmness details in product descriptions. Explore our soft silicone dildos.

6. Budget: Quality Meets Affordability

Considerations:

Silicone dildos range from $50–$150 AUD, depending on features.
Mid-range options ($60–$80) balance quality and cost.
Look for bundles or sales at FantasyDildos.com.au

Recommended Product: Our Sanguine Pup Dog Knot Dildo is affordable and durable.

Choosing a Dildo for Specific Stimulation

G-Spot: Choose curved dildos with a bulbous tip (13–15 cm long). Try our Sanguine Whale Alien Dildo.
Prostate: Opt for curved designs with a flared base for safety. Explore our anal-safe dildos.
Clitoral/External: Small, textured dildos work well for external stimulation. See our textured silicone dildos.
Tip: Pair with our Silky Smooth Water-Based Lube for enhanced comfort.

Choosing a Dildo for Safe Anal Play

Key Features:

Flared Base: Prevents slippage during anal use.

Small Sizes: Beginners should start with 2–2.5 cm diameter.

Lubrication: Use ample water-based lube for safety and comfort.

Tip: Always clean thoroughly after anal use. See our How to Clean a Silicone Dildo Safely.

Recommended Product: Our Anal Beginner Dildo is designed for safe anal play. Shop our anal-safe dildos.

Dildos for Solo vs. Partner Play

Solo Play:

Suction cup dildos for hands-free use in the shower or on furniture.
Example: Misty Pony Squirting Horse Dildo

Partner Play:

Harness-compatible dildos for strap-on play.
Communication tips: Discuss preferences and comfort with your partner.

Tip: Explore our harness collection for couples.

Coloured and Fantasy Dildos

Why It Matters: Vibrant or glow-in-the-dark silicone dildos enhance visual appeal and fantasy play.

Options:

Bright colours (e.g., purple, blue) for personal expression.
Fantasy designs (e.g., dragon, unicorn) for role-play.
Glow-in-the-dark for added fun.

Recommended Product: Our Glow-in-the-Dark Dragon Dildos are a fan favourite. Shop our glow in the dark dildo collection.

Discreet Shopping and Shipping

Our Promise: At Fantasy Dildos Australia, we ensure:

Discreet packaging with no identifying labels.
Neutral billing for privacy.
Fast, discreet shipping across Australia.

Storage for Privacy: Use our Lockable Storage Box for discreet home storage.

Tip: Learn more about our shipping policies on our About Us page.

Eco-Friendly and Ethical Considerations

Why Silicone?:

Durable, reducing the need for frequent replacements.
Made from ethically sourced, medical-grade materials at FantasyDildos.com.au.

Recycling Tips: Contact local recycling programs for safe disposal of old silicone toys.

Recommended Collection: Shop our eco-conscious silicone dildos

Pairing Your Dildo with Accessories

Must-Have Accessories:

Lubricant: Use water-based lubes like our Silky Smooth Water-Based Lube.
Harness: Pair with our Adjustable Harness for strap-on play.
Storage: Protect with our Luxury Silk Storage Pouch.
Cleaner: Use our Antibacterial Toy Cleaner for hygiene.

Tip: Browse our accessories collection for complete care.

Dildo Myths Debunked

Myth 1: All dildos are unsafe.
Fact: Our silicone dildos are medical-grade and body-safe.
Myth 2: Bigger is always better.
Fact: Comfort varies by user; start small if new. See our size guide.
Myth 3: Silicone dildos are hard to clean.
Fact: They’re easy to maintain. Read our How to Clean a Silicone Dildo Safely.

Comparison Table: Top Dildos for Every Need

Dildo	Size	Firmness	Features	Best For	Price
Gleaming Whirlwind Dragon Dildo	17 cm x 5.6 cm	Medium	Suction Cup, Smooth	Beginners, Solo Play	$69
Bloodstone Chimera Monster Dildo	21.5 cm x 5 cm	Medium	Curved, Flared Base	G-Spot, Prostate Play	$69
Blossoming Ascent Dragon Dildo	25 cm x 6.2 cm	Medium	Textured, Fantasy, Glow-in-the-Dark	Fantasy Enthusiasts, Solo Play	$79
Whimsical Swirling Hand Double Ended Dildo	37 cm x 5.8 cm	Medium	Flared Base, Harness-Compatible	Couples, Double-ended	$69

Customer Reviews

“The Blossoming Ascent Dragon Dildo was perfect for my first time. Soft and easy to use!” – Emma, Brisbane
“Love the Bloodstone Chimera Monster Dildo. The glow-in-the-dark feature is so fun!” – Alex, Melbourne

FAQs About Choosing a Dildo

Q: What’s the best dildo for beginners in Australia?
A: Start with a small, soft silicone dildo like our Candied Pup Dog Knot Dildo.
Q: Are silicone dildos safe?
A: Yes, our medical-grade silicone dildos are non-porous and phthalate-free. Learn more in our How to Clean a Silicone Dildo Safely.
Q: Can I use a dildo for anal play?
A: Yes, choose one with a flared base, like our Anal Beginner Dildo.
Q: What lube should I use with a silicone dildo?
A: Use water-based lube, like our Silky Smooth Water-Based Lube.
Q: How do I choose a discreet dildo in Australia?
A: We offer discreet shipping and storage solutions like our Lockable Storage Box.

Choosing the right dildo is about finding the perfect balance of size, shape, features, and safety to suit your needs. Whether you’re exploring solo, with a partner, or seeking a fantasy experience, our premium silicone dildos at FantasyDildos.com.au offer unmatched quality and versatility. From beginner-friendly options to vibrant fantasy designs, we have something for everyone. Need help? Contact our team for personalised advice!